Can I Marry My Partner in Prison?

Short answer—yes, you can. If you’ve got a loved one serving time in a UK prison and you both want to tie the knot, it is possible. But like most things behind bars, it’s not exactly straightforward. There's paperwork, rules, and a few hoops to jump through. That said, it’s been done plenty of times before.

So How Does It Actually Work?

First things first: the prisoner has to make a formal application. They’ll need to speak with their personal officer or prison chaplain and ask to apply for permission to marry. It’s called a “Request to Marry” form. Without that form, nothing’s moving forward.

Once that’s submitted, prison staff will assess it. They’ll look at behaviour, sentence length, and whether there’s any security concern. If the prison governor signs it off, it can then be sent to the Ministry of Justice for approval.

What About the Ceremony?

If everything is approved, a date can be set. Most prison weddings are very basic—usually done in a designated visits room or a side office, depending on the prison. You’re not going to get flowers, music or cake. But the ceremony is legal and counts just the same as one outside.

You’ll need a registrar from the local council to come in and conduct the marriage. Sometimes they charge for that, and usually it's the non-prisoner partner who pays. Don’t expect more than a handful of guests—just immediate family, and that’s if they’re even allowed. No phones, no cameras, no big send-off.

Can You Have a Reception?

Not really. After the ceremony, the prisoner usually returns straight back to their wing. There’s no food, no champagne, no first dance. It’s all very practical. Some couples do a celebration later on the outside, or mark it in their own way with a private moment during a visit.

Why Do People Still Do It?

Believe it or not, a prison wedding can be incredibly meaningful. For some, it’s about commitment. For others, it’s about gaining rights—like being recognised as next of kin or having more say in decisions. And for some, it’s just love. Simple as that.

Things to Keep in Mind

• The whole process can take months—don’t expect it to be quick.
• If either of you has been married before, you’ll need official divorce papers.
• Not every prison makes it easy—some drag their feet.
• You might need to pay for extra security or cover admin costs.

Final Thought

Marrying someone in prison isn’t for everyone, but if your relationship’s solid and you’re both serious about it, the system does allow it. You’ll need patience and persistence, but it’s your right—and yes, it is legal and recognised outside prison walls.

Want help with the process, or not sure where to start? We’ve broken down more info on visits, legal steps and emotional support at PrisonGuide.co.uk.